
Pema Chödrön
Deirdre Blomfield-Brown
1936-present • American
BuddhismTibetan Buddhism
American Tibetan Buddhist nun and author. Resident teacher at Gampo Abbey, known for accessible teachings on working with difficult emotions.
Key Works
- When Things Fall Apart
- The Places That Scare You
- Start Where You Are
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Quotes by Pema Chödrön
103 quotes“Run, don't walk to that practice. The pain in this moment is your teacher.”
presenceWelcoming the Unwelcome
“The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy.”
healingWhen Things Fall Apart
“Whatever you meet, that is the path.”
pathWhen Things Fall Apart
“You're not what you think you are. You're vast and unknowable.”
identityWhen Things Fall Apart
“Resistance to unwanted circumstances has the power to keep those circumstances alive and well.”
acceptanceWhen Things Fall Apart
“To stay with that shakiness — to stay with a broken heart, with a rumbling stomach, with the feeling of hopelessness — that is the path of true awakening.”
groundlessnessWhen Things Fall Apart
“Maitri — unconditional friendliness toward oneself — is the basis of all spiritual practice.”
maitriThe Wisdom of No Escape
“As we learn to make friends with our restlessness, our anxiety, and our fear, we also learn to relax with reality just as it is.”
acceptanceWhen Things Fall Apart
“It's only by going into the storm that we can find our way through.”
courageWhen Things Fall Apart
“The point is not to try to throw ourselves away and become something better. It's to befriend who we are already.”
acceptanceStart Where You Are
“Start where you are. This is very important.”
presenceStart Where You Are
“The future is completely open, and we are writing it moment to moment.”
presenceWhen Things Fall Apart
“When we don't act on our impulses, we begin to experience our energy directly.”
presenceThe Wisdom of No Escape
“Things end. Things begin. They do not fall apart, then come together.”
impermanenceWhen Things Fall Apart
“To stay open and curious in the face of what frightens us is the gateway to courage.”
courageThe Places That Scare You
“You can use the difficult places of your life as the teacher.”
teachingWhen Things Fall Apart
“Do not lose heart. We were made for these times.”
courageWelcoming the Unwelcome
“You are precisely as you should be. Stop trying to be someone else.”
acceptanceStart Where You Are
“You are the sky. Everything else is just the weather.”
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